ThanksLadyD; I mostly wear studs and have always liked bigger, but they kept tipping down, so I defaulted to smaller studs ( before lobe wonder and huge earring backs). Now the smaller studs look inappropriate. Dangle earrings have tempted me for years but didn't play well with wimpy earlobes.
It's now, or never though. I'm older, and tired of denying myself dangles. I'm trying out a variety of very lightweight but big coverage options for the lobe, so I can indulge the urge to dangle, and wear bigger studs too!