You deserve those gorgeous pearls and some Tahitians too. Not either/or, it's both/and!! Think of them as consumables- like a trip to Australia, once the money is spent, it it is spent, and you don't even have to have something to show for it, except a happy time or maybe a seashell! Same with pearls. You can designate a charity or charities to take over your pearls when you are done. If you have any paperwork, hold on to it.
Meanwhile, wear them out! Daily use is best. When you get your Tahitians, wear them separately or together! By then, you may want a keshi necklace or a pendant or two-or drop earrings...... there is no end to it!
I am retired and don't go out daily as I used to, but I generally wear pearls anyway. Hubby and I have a rule, he can take photos of me only if I am wearing pearls. (He just got a new camera)