Sea urchin- I think they look beautiful on you. I think they stand out quite a bit. To me, in the picture on my monitor, you have a ruddy tone to your skin ( ruddy tan) and the gold stands out. They are beautiful pearls. I always have had good luck with Jose at tahitianpearls.biz.
But, I agree-- you have to LOVE them, and it doesn't sound that way. Golden pearls are the hardest to buy online, I think!