(replying to Bweaves' post)
At a juried craft show this summer, one vendor of high end jewelry (who had some stunning Tahitian rings) told me that they didn't sell many of the pearl rings-- women were hesitant to buy, saying they were afraid they would damage the pearl. My reply to her was, "Nothing lasts forever."
As I grow older, I am becoming more philosophical about using my nice things, even though it means they receive wear and tear. It's okay if things don't last forever. Who knows what my daughter will or won't want to keep and wear after I'm gone? I don't care to wear most of what belonged to my own mother-- our tastes were so different.
(Replying to pearlharbour's post)
About smoother chains-- I've seen snake chains used but these are less durable, tend to kink.
Wheat chains are very strong and flexible.