Just to answer the last two, when lots are offered, the average momme weight of the lot will tell you the average size of the lot. The higher the momme, the better the lot if all other factors are equal. The average momme does correlate to the average size of the lot.
For example, if you are buying an 8-11 mm Tahitian lot and you know the weight and number of pearls, you can determine the average breakdown of sizes. The lot will likely be offered in momme, so that average momme equals the average mm size of the lot.
I don't have a breakdown chart, but it shouldn't be difficult to put together.