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ArtemisiaBlue
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For two months now I have been doing research for a purchase I have been given the responsibility to make, against my own preferrence to be suprized by something someone close to me might have caringly chosen for me - my graduation gift, which now due to chronological overlap is now my birthday present too. My mother insists she knows nothing about jewelry and given of the things I studied at design school jewelry was one of my areas of focus she didn't want to get me something I didn't like. Fair enough. I gave it a lot of thought and a pearl necklace seemed like the obvious answer for a classic and significant item of jewelry.
So in my research, I found this site - which has been incredibly informative - and these raves for "freshadamas" (forgive me but that is a terribly gimmick-y little name for them, jewel names should carry more gravity than, say, breakfast cereal names. Its too 'clever'.) and the thick nacre vs. "pearl plating" arguement seems hard to argue with, and the rave reviews from people with far more knowledge than myself when it comes to pearls is also a good reflection. After looking over the Pearl Paradise website I was impressed by the design of their items and the relatively low prices, and so i decided to go for it. I ordered two pairs of earrings so that i might compare the rose and ivory overtone in person rather than just trust the 'rose for pale brunettes' rule which turns out to actually be true for me too. They arrived today, in well-made little black leather boxes rather than those velvety ones that always break, and with a DVD about pearls i haven't watched yet but was pleasantly suprized by.
Then the dilemma. I opened the first box and they were so beautiful and shiny I immediately opened the second, and facing me right on the middle of one of the pearls was a little pimple the size of a large-ish dresspin hole. I realize that completely unblemished would be impossible, but the fact it is right on the part that faces outward, and it seems like anyone could have looked at it and figured out to mount it differently. This kind of thing is why I hate buying things online and not being able to see them in person - you have to trust the seller's judgement, and in this case i did. Yes, i know i can return it, but I am rethinking the necklace now - if there is going to be this kind of blemishing anyways, why not just buy aa+/aaa at a larger size? I am having a hard enough time making the decision, let alone feeling like i have the right to want something so expensive in the face of how much 4 years of college cost, and so now I am feeling incredibly frustrated with trying to make a judgement when I am torn between feeling like I can't believe things for sale online are ever in fact what they are represented to be and the knowledge that it is still a far better deal than any I could get at a retailer i can actually interact with in person! I just am not sure how to make this decision and feel certain I am not being unreasonable and extravagent in what i am selecting - I want to feel sure this is an investment and not a frivolous indulgence, and I want to be confident that I am buying something made with care and attention to details like little surface imperfections, and that I am not just getting caught up in the little frenzy of excitement happening over these 'freshadama' pearls here on this site! If I can't convince myself there is no chance I will be able to convince my mother.
-Katherine
I have to add, just to put my complaint in perspective, that the pearls were otherwise incredibly gorgeous with a kind of glowy-ness I have never seen in other pearls, and I am only so upset because everything else was so lovely that the clear and poorly positioned blemish was just such a contrast.
So in my research, I found this site - which has been incredibly informative - and these raves for "freshadamas" (forgive me but that is a terribly gimmick-y little name for them, jewel names should carry more gravity than, say, breakfast cereal names. Its too 'clever'.) and the thick nacre vs. "pearl plating" arguement seems hard to argue with, and the rave reviews from people with far more knowledge than myself when it comes to pearls is also a good reflection. After looking over the Pearl Paradise website I was impressed by the design of their items and the relatively low prices, and so i decided to go for it. I ordered two pairs of earrings so that i might compare the rose and ivory overtone in person rather than just trust the 'rose for pale brunettes' rule which turns out to actually be true for me too. They arrived today, in well-made little black leather boxes rather than those velvety ones that always break, and with a DVD about pearls i haven't watched yet but was pleasantly suprized by.
Then the dilemma. I opened the first box and they were so beautiful and shiny I immediately opened the second, and facing me right on the middle of one of the pearls was a little pimple the size of a large-ish dresspin hole. I realize that completely unblemished would be impossible, but the fact it is right on the part that faces outward, and it seems like anyone could have looked at it and figured out to mount it differently. This kind of thing is why I hate buying things online and not being able to see them in person - you have to trust the seller's judgement, and in this case i did. Yes, i know i can return it, but I am rethinking the necklace now - if there is going to be this kind of blemishing anyways, why not just buy aa+/aaa at a larger size? I am having a hard enough time making the decision, let alone feeling like i have the right to want something so expensive in the face of how much 4 years of college cost, and so now I am feeling incredibly frustrated with trying to make a judgement when I am torn between feeling like I can't believe things for sale online are ever in fact what they are represented to be and the knowledge that it is still a far better deal than any I could get at a retailer i can actually interact with in person! I just am not sure how to make this decision and feel certain I am not being unreasonable and extravagent in what i am selecting - I want to feel sure this is an investment and not a frivolous indulgence, and I want to be confident that I am buying something made with care and attention to details like little surface imperfections, and that I am not just getting caught up in the little frenzy of excitement happening over these 'freshadama' pearls here on this site! If I can't convince myself there is no chance I will be able to convince my mother.
-Katherine
I have to add, just to put my complaint in perspective, that the pearls were otherwise incredibly gorgeous with a kind of glowy-ness I have never seen in other pearls, and I am only so upset because everything else was so lovely that the clear and poorly positioned blemish was just such a contrast.