I'm fair skinned with some yellow undertones. I also tan very well and this can change the way things look on me, but all my jewelry still looks good. I think pinks go best with my skin, but I can pull off most things. I think it is important to go with your gut in these situations, in this case your eyes. If you are drawn to white with rose overtone that may be what suits you best. I agree with airdancer about matching to your dress. Depending on embroidery/color etc, you may find one color goes better. If you order multiple strand and return them quick enough you may not get hit with the charge at all. Try ordering at the beginning of a billing cycle and try to return before the cycle ends. Good luck with figuring this out, but I'm sure you will feel amazing on your wedding day no matter what you wear.